They are great friends :)

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boys and girls can make great friends 

Sometimes tertanya jugak la pada diri sendiri . Kenapa aku suka Hlovate’s artworks damn much eyh ? And selalu pulak tu kaitkan artworks dia dengan my blog and my entries . Then I realize something . That is because Hlovate’s artworks rasa close gila dengan my life and my story . Yeah! Not all la but then banyak jugak la yang rasa close to mine tu . And one of is that yang I’m going to share with you all in this entry .

BOYS MAKE GREAT FRIENDS BUT NOT IN RELATIONSHIP ... where are the fires ?

Yess! I think that is sooo correct . Aku memang sokong 101% la .

“ Eyh suka suki hati dia je nak cakap macam tu ? Boyfriend aku elok je siap become a super great boyfriend lagi tu “ .

“ Super great macam mana tu eh ? “

“ He’s loving and I know he loves me . Obviously you are jealous ! “

miss the old good times 

Seriously I’m not jealous . Never crossed my mind pun nak jealous whatever semua ni . It’s just that aku tak suka tengok kaum hawa being kaum adam’s toy . Aku bukan la nak cakap aku kenal habes kaum adam ni but then . yeah! Experiences teach me A LOT! Aku boleh la nak dikatakan agak baik dengan kaum opposite aku ni . It’s not that I’m involving in those mushy lovey dovey things . Aku memang ramai KAWAN lelaki . Kawan yang ber-aku kau . Buat benda-benda sengal . Borak merapu ntahpape . Pranks each other . Lepak sama-sama . And others yang teenagers biasa buat but not the cigarette , drugs , free sex , clubbing and whatsoever yang my akal says BIG NO .

miss my school times 

Since tadika lagi kot . Seingat aku la . Maybe because aku ni went to kindergarten together with my cousin who is a boy and now a big boy already la . He’s a 19 years young like me . Disebabkan aku memang agak berkepit je dengan dia since 6 years old . All his friends are mine too . And for sure la dia punya kawan all boys so automatically aku ni pun terkawan la dengan lelaki .

Then naik primary school pun sama . Stick with my couz ni . Join je dia and the gang yang all boys tu . Ada je girls yang jadi kawan aku tapi entah la . Tak seramai boys kot . Maybe aku ni lil bit kasar kot . Aku tahu mesti you all macam ... “gatal namanya ni” , “sah middle name dia ... gedik” and whatsoever yang related to gedik-gatal-overboard-yes-I-am .  Since standard 1 till 6 . Yang make it more better or worst , I don’t know . Most of classes since standard 1 till 6 ni I was in the same class with him . So for sure , memang kamceng la dengan member dia . Dah la member dia jenis yang mesra alam always come to his house , tak pun rumah nenek kita orang .

just friends . no touch-touch 

Then this so-called “phenomenon” continued to secondary school . In secondary ni aku memang ada ramai kawan girls . I love them so much ! They are like my soul-sisters la . Yet still I have many boy friends too . Even okay la tak la ramai yang aku get closed to but then ramai jugak la . Ada yang baik secara tak sengaja sebab dah dia suka kawan baik aku , so faham faham sendiri la kan . Then ada yang memang ntah la . Friendship ni unexplained things yang you just don’t know when it happened . Sedar sedar je , he’s my friend .

Uni-life ni ... not much of them la yang I get closed to but ada . Can't find the reasons why my uni-life ni I being agak anti with the one yang I dont know espeacially boys . And for the first time in my life-stage ... I have more girl friends than boy friends . It's okay ... my uni-life is still at the beginning . And way to go to come an end . 

Lone ranger = my uni-life . is it ?

Those friendship with boys . Make me realize la . Boys are great in friendship . Memang best la kawan dengan dia orang ni . If dah borak with them , memang boleh pecah perut la gelak . There are funny and they love to make stupid-idiot jokes yang suits them . I’m not saying that they are stupid or idiot tapi yeah lawak dia orang bodoh tapi still can make you laugh out loud la .

Besides , boys ni dia punya friendship-hood dia strong . Macam girls kan “you are my friend” bila depan . Bila belakang “kau nak tahu tak si ... suka korek hidung lepas tu kesat merata-rata” . It’s just an example . hee . Yes I know . Aku bagi example yang sangat stupid but whatever la kan . Okay back to the story . Hah! You are my friend konon ... bull* je semua tu . At the back , buat ketupat pasal kawan . Malas nak cerita la kan . Memang that’s a fact even not all yang macam tu tapi ramai . Ramai yang best girl friends macam kawan-kawan aku! They’re just great . Yet ramai je jugak yang macam situasi di atas *rolling eyes* . If not agree . Girls la tu . heeXD .

IMISS my girl friends !

The other point of saying that boys are great as friends ... Ehemm . Terasa macam tengah buat essay la pulak . tehee:D . Because they are the type yang easy-going . They don’t act emotionally like girls . Aku takde la nak cakap aku ni perfect habes but I hate the angry and emo feelings . So , I will avoid myself from being in that feelings . The best I can .

Yang paling kadang-kadang aku sendiri pun tak faham pasal girls . If they’re in their time of month which is the Japan’s flag tengah tegak berdiri . You got me , ey ? Err , if they’re period la kan they will be like macam given free tickets to marah whoever they want . Asal a girl ni mengamuk tak tentu pasal ke secara suddenly mesti nanti the reason of being that monster will be “ala , biasa la tu tengah period” Err , that’s not the ideal answer kot . Memang la at that time hormone sonsang tapi jangan la jadikan alasan untuk membiarkan syaitan menguasai diri . MARAH itu penguasaan syaitan dalam diri seorang hamba Allah.

close my eyes and ...

There is one incident ni . Happened when I’m in standard 6 . Ada la one day ni , my couz and his gang yang sebatalion . okay over . Tak sampai sebatalion tapi ade la fews around 8 10 orang jugak la . I was one of them , kita orang buat benda agak sengal la . Can’t tell it here . sorry . Tapi it’s not something yang tahap luar alam . Then a girl ni boleh reported dekat our teachers . And the teachers were like agak marah sebab maybe la kita orang in first class so kena tunjuk good attitudes . All the people yang involved kena panggil dengan cikgu-disiplin-yang-sangat-garang . “Siapa lagi yang buat semua ni dengan awak semua ?” . None of them mention my name . Terharu gi-la! Tahap petala skala berapa pun tahu la . Tapi memang time tu sangat sayang dia orang la . Dah la aku ni prefect *raising eyebrows* . They all kena marah agak teruk and the worst part , they were being punished in front of the students yang in the last class . MALU ! Tapi none of them mention my name ? huh! *kantoi dia orang sayang aku* HAHA .

 

No proper , exact words to explain it tapi aku rasa you all get what I’m trying to say from the story above , kan ? If girls yang kena , susah la nak jumpa yang will not mention their friends name . Ada yet too few of them .

for being a grow up girl ... I think they suit me as friends . best-friends

These are some of the things yang make me feel “boys make a great friend” . Banyak je lagi sebenarnya . Tapi ... panjang la nanti entry ! Ni pun dah over panjang . heh! I’m not an anti-girl’s girl okay . My identity card shows that I’m a girl . Pure . Naturally . A girl . My name pun obviously , a girl’s name . It’s just I wanna make it clear to you all why boys make a great friends but NOT in relationship . And I’m sorry la if anyone yang terhurt ke . But then . Again . No hurt feelings . No heart feelings . It’s just what I think thru my very own perspective of life and experiences .

Hey! Wait for my next entry about WHY I think BOYS ARE REALLY NO-NO IN RELATIONSHIP .

PeaceOUT!

Thanks for reading J

May Allah bless <3