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The tittle macam pelik sikit la . But then , like who cares , ey ? I found this stuffs from a friend of mine . It's interesting . Like seriously ? So , Lets check it out , guys :)
1 Calling you on the phone does not mean what you think it means .
"Please, tell me why a girl thinks that calling her equals I want her to be my girlfriend," says Adib . Blunt , but we like blunt . Adib is in the majority when it comes to romancing the phone . Nearly every guy we talked to says he feels tons of pressure from girls when it comes to the telephone . But - why ?
"It's like calling a girl means I'm admitting I like her , but that's not what's up ," explains Adib . "It's more like I'm calling because I might like her . I hate calling because the next day the girl acts like she owns me . Or, if she's shy, suddenly she can barely talk to me because she's scared . It's stupid ."
Knowledge is power. You know you're hung up on the phone if, when a guy calls, you think you have some kind of romantic upper hand .
"I'm just calling because you're cute or nice or whatever," says Zul .
"If you treat me like I'm a dog just because I think you're cool enough to dial up , then you're a b-word." In other words , for a guy , it's just a phone call , not a confession of undying love. Hel-lo ?
2 You are much prettier without all that makeup.
Judging from my survey , boys can't stand makeup . In fact , it seems they can't complain about it enough . Sure , they all like pretty girls , but they also have a problem with a face that looks full-on painted . And what looks painted to a guy is far less than what you might think .
"Why do girls think they need to have so much crap on their faces?" asks Faiz.
"Girls at my university wear all this black crap on their eyes, and their lips are, like, thick with brown goop . It's ugly . Do they really think that will get them a guy?"
Knowledge is power . The hated for cosmetics is no joke. Could natural-looking makeup be the best date makeup? If being hot to guys is your goal , remember that . Otherwise , it's your choice if you want to apply enough purple mascara to impair your vision . Go for it .
3 When you act spazzy and giggly, it's seriously embarrassing . In Malaysian girls word . It's GEDIK (?)
"What is up with girls hopping up and down when they're happy about something?" asks Faris .
"A girl definitely invented the word 'yay!' because no guy I know has ever used it." Are you guilty of doing the Gily Woo-hoo! dance? It's a combo of baby claps and bobbing on your toes while emitting high-pitched squeals of delight. This all in reaction to , say , seeing the slide projector set up upon entering Math class . h-uh ?
What's the big deal? "I really do want to know why are girls so excited about normal stuff," says Faris . "Every other thing , it's like , 'Ohmigosh! No way!"'
Knowledge is power . Haikal , a self-described shy boy, has something interesting to say: "I think girls like attention, and being excited about something makes people look and wonder what she's so happy about." Good theory .
Arnie , has a theory of his own: "I think girls are just different . You're raised to let your feelings out, even if they're bad . I've never seen a guy friend cry , but I've seen a chick fall apart because some dude she liked didn't pick her for his volleyball team in phys ed. That's dumb."
We're not here to tell you how to act. Just tuck it in the back of your mind that all the boys we surveyed agree that girls could mellow out a little . Let's have a round of baby-claps for that , peh-lis .
4 Gossiping , whispering and writing notes makes you on look beyond shallow.
"Girls are always passing notes around in class , and it's just so friggin' dumb," says Amir . "Or they'll look right at me , then whisper to each other and laugh. Do they want me to think they're talking about me? 'Cause I do. And if it's really true and they are talking about me, then that's just lame."
Rude is the word , actually , Amir . Whispering , especially with the cupped hand at your girl's ear , is just so third grade . And gossip? "When I hear one girl talk trash about another girl, it's like I can't believe it," says Farhan, "like I'm in a bad movie about how mean girls are. If I heard my friends were talking about me like that, I'd transfer schools."
Knowledge is power . People talk about other people . That's life . But there is a big difference between gossip and character assassinations . Not to mention , it's bad form to let anyone believe you're saying negative things about him . So , sorry to get all motherly on you , but if you absolutely must exchange information , be cool about the notes and discreet about the whispering . Oh, and do be sure that the "information" isn't going to hurt someone's feelings , OK?
5 Boys worry about what you think of their hair , skin , weight and clothes .
"My best friend is a girl, and the other day she said my hair looks exactly the same every single day," says Lutfi . "I couldn't believe it because some days my hair is jacked up." For the record, Lutfi is a cutie with great hair.
A recent nationally televised newsmagazine show had a big story about how men are the new vanity victims , and how they stress on their looks as much or more than women . But , if a guy suffers vanity , he doesn't talk about it - at least , not to girls and not as much as girls .
What we know: Guys totally think about their appearance even if they don't say it out loud . "I bad to ask my mom to take me to the dermatologist because I was breaking out on my cheeks and back," says Jay. "I couldn't stand it."
His friend Razi has a different issue: "Girls like guys with good bodies but, when I try to get six-pack abs, it never works. I just feel like I have a spare tire all the time."
Knowledge is power . If you could get a view of Razi , you would tell him what we told him: He's out of his mind--the boy is a total babe! But here he is trippin' on his gut. Moral of the story? Boys have self-image issues , too. Isn't
it a relief to know that? Ah-ha ~
Err . Girls , betul ke (?)
[update] for the part 2
peaceOUT!
may.ALLAH.bless
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The tittle macam pelik sikit la . But then , like who cares , ey ? I found this stuffs from a friend of mine . It's interesting . Like seriously ? So , Lets check it out , guys :)
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| girl is always a girl |
1 Calling you on the phone does not mean what you think it means .
"Please, tell me why a girl thinks that calling her equals I want her to be my girlfriend," says Adib . Blunt , but we like blunt . Adib is in the majority when it comes to romancing the phone . Nearly every guy we talked to says he feels tons of pressure from girls when it comes to the telephone . But - why ?
"It's like calling a girl means I'm admitting I like her , but that's not what's up ," explains Adib . "It's more like I'm calling because I might like her . I hate calling because the next day the girl acts like she owns me . Or, if she's shy, suddenly she can barely talk to me because she's scared . It's stupid ."
Knowledge is power. You know you're hung up on the phone if, when a guy calls, you think you have some kind of romantic upper hand .
"I'm just calling because you're cute or nice or whatever," says Zul .
"If you treat me like I'm a dog just because I think you're cool enough to dial up , then you're a b-word." In other words , for a guy , it's just a phone call , not a confession of undying love. Hel-lo ?
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| err , is it the face w/o make-up ?? |
2 You are much prettier without all that makeup.
Judging from my survey , boys can't stand makeup . In fact , it seems they can't complain about it enough . Sure , they all like pretty girls , but they also have a problem with a face that looks full-on painted . And what looks painted to a guy is far less than what you might think .
"Why do girls think they need to have so much crap on their faces?" asks Faiz.
"Girls at my university wear all this black crap on their eyes, and their lips are, like, thick with brown goop . It's ugly . Do they really think that will get them a guy?"
Knowledge is power . The hated for cosmetics is no joke. Could natural-looking makeup be the best date makeup? If being hot to guys is your goal , remember that . Otherwise , it's your choice if you want to apply enough purple mascara to impair your vision . Go for it .
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| they are in their own world |
3 When you act spazzy and giggly, it's seriously embarrassing . In Malaysian girls word . It's GEDIK (?)
"What is up with girls hopping up and down when they're happy about something?" asks Faris .
"A girl definitely invented the word 'yay!' because no guy I know has ever used it." Are you guilty of doing the Gily Woo-hoo! dance? It's a combo of baby claps and bobbing on your toes while emitting high-pitched squeals of delight. This all in reaction to , say , seeing the slide projector set up upon entering Math class . h-uh ?
What's the big deal? "I really do want to know why are girls so excited about normal stuff," says Faris . "Every other thing , it's like , 'Ohmigosh! No way!"'
Knowledge is power . Haikal , a self-described shy boy, has something interesting to say: "I think girls like attention, and being excited about something makes people look and wonder what she's so happy about." Good theory .
Arnie , has a theory of his own: "I think girls are just different . You're raised to let your feelings out, even if they're bad . I've never seen a guy friend cry , but I've seen a chick fall apart because some dude she liked didn't pick her for his volleyball team in phys ed. That's dumb."
We're not here to tell you how to act. Just tuck it in the back of your mind that all the boys we surveyed agree that girls could mellow out a little . Let's have a round of baby-claps for that , peh-lis .
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| they over-care about small things |
"Girls are always passing notes around in class , and it's just so friggin' dumb," says Amir . "Or they'll look right at me , then whisper to each other and laugh. Do they want me to think they're talking about me? 'Cause I do. And if it's really true and they are talking about me, then that's just lame."
Rude is the word , actually , Amir . Whispering , especially with the cupped hand at your girl's ear , is just so third grade . And gossip? "When I hear one girl talk trash about another girl, it's like I can't believe it," says Farhan, "like I'm in a bad movie about how mean girls are. If I heard my friends were talking about me like that, I'd transfer schools."
Knowledge is power . People talk about other people . That's life . But there is a big difference between gossip and character assassinations . Not to mention , it's bad form to let anyone believe you're saying negative things about him . So , sorry to get all motherly on you , but if you absolutely must exchange information , be cool about the notes and discreet about the whispering . Oh, and do be sure that the "information" isn't going to hurt someone's feelings , OK?
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| it is real |
5 Boys worry about what you think of their hair , skin , weight and clothes .
"My best friend is a girl, and the other day she said my hair looks exactly the same every single day," says Lutfi . "I couldn't believe it because some days my hair is jacked up." For the record, Lutfi is a cutie with great hair.
A recent nationally televised newsmagazine show had a big story about how men are the new vanity victims , and how they stress on their looks as much or more than women . But , if a guy suffers vanity , he doesn't talk about it - at least , not to girls and not as much as girls .
What we know: Guys totally think about their appearance even if they don't say it out loud . "I bad to ask my mom to take me to the dermatologist because I was breaking out on my cheeks and back," says Jay. "I couldn't stand it."
His friend Razi has a different issue: "Girls like guys with good bodies but, when I try to get six-pack abs, it never works. I just feel like I have a spare tire all the time."
Knowledge is power . If you could get a view of Razi , you would tell him what we told him: He's out of his mind--the boy is a total babe! But here he is trippin' on his gut. Moral of the story? Boys have self-image issues , too. Isn't
it a relief to know that? Ah-ha ~
Err . Girls , betul ke (?)
[update] for the part 2
peaceOUT!
may.ALLAH.bless
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