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| kate and will . |
Okay la berbalik pada title entry nih . Big why la kan buat yang memikirkan why guys kahwin lambat (?) . Nak prove ? Umur dah reach 30 baru gelabah . And you all can observe sendiri la most guys now 30++ baru la kahwin . Zaman dolu-dolu chillax (chill+relax) je kahwin awal . Tak nak cakap banyak aku nak bagi example la . Why this phenomenon boleh happen .
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| apple to my pie :D |
If you(guys) is a man around 23 years old yang baru tamat pengajian and work as seorang pegawai . Your salary around RM 2000 and you tak ada saving dalam bank . Every month , katakanlah expenditure for food yang like semua orang tahu boys kuat kuat kuat sangat makan tapi tak gemuk gemuk and aku jealous >.< , pengangkutan , bil-bil api air semua , house rent and others expenditure are around RM 1200 . Then , as a good son , you of course la nak sent money to your parents , kan ? For parents RM 300 la . So , balance per month tinggal RM 500 . With full of dicipline in saving money for future , maybe you dapat save money around RM 5000 per year .
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| imagination |
1 year passed , you dah 24 years OLD . With Allah's will , you met a girl that you dream for . Both of you pun plan la nak get married in a year or 2 years more . Thus , you yang with full of enthusiasm nak kahwin nih pun nak la sediakan all the main things like house and car before nak kahwin . You work damn hard and dapat naik gaji sebanyak 10% . Dibesarkan dengan famili yang sungguh baik , you pun born to be a 'gentlemen'. All expenditure for 'dating', present , flowers and segala teddybear-chocolate-mushy-lovey-things yang biasa orang buat gifts to lover dah prepare awal-awal . 10% dah save for her . As the year before , after all the suffer ikat perut makan maggie sebab nak save money , you berjaya stay RM 5000 per year for saving . Besides , company bagi bonus 2 months in that year . So , plus RM4000 lagi in bank . Now , you have RM 14,000 in the bank . And taadaa! It's a time to buy a car already . You pay RM8000 as the bayaran permulaan for a new car yang cost RM 40,000 . Automatically , your saving tinggal RM 6000 .
The next year when you dah 25 years OLD , you have to pay for pinjaman kereta every month which mean that , our saving per month tinggal RM 400 . Bonus for this year tak de sebab company tak perform well . ANd that somehow tell us that the saving money for that year by the end of the year is only RM 11,000 .
| engaged! :D |
Engaged
Finally you buat decision to engage with the one that you love . She is happy and agree with you . RM 1500 for the rings and hantaran and your saving dah tinggal only RM 9500 .
The next year , you all dah 26 years OLD . Alhamdulillah ,and salary pun naik la ! So , now your salary dah become RM3000 .
"Good news! Aku nak kahwin la tahun ni!" You yang naive ni pun bersorak girang gembira like kanak-kanak ribena without knowing that ... masalah baru nak start je nih .
One fine day , you pun holiday half day sebab nak discuss dengan tunang you .
You : "Berape eh hantaran kahwin kita?"
Tunang : "Berapa-berapa yang you sanggup."
You : "RM 5000, okay?"
Tunang : "I okay je. Tapi my mom tu. Dia kata grad oversea macam I ni mane boleh letak rendah-rendah. Paling kurang RM10,000 tau!"
Sikit lagi you nak collapse dah after dengar wife-to-be you punye answer .
"Mana aku nak dapat duit lebih?" otak tengah ligat dok fikir .
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| kerana nak cepat kahwin . hee |
Work hard!
Because of terlalu sayang kan your tunang , you work extra hard la till dapa title 'pekerja cemerlang' tuh! :O . Besides, you tambah your monthly salary by doing direct selling . Cinta punye fasal , penat pun penat la . Asal dapat kahwin dengan orang yang dicintai . Err . Finally , dapat la RM20,000 for that year . Suatu pencapaian yang you have to proud of it! And now you dah 27 years OLD . Duit hantaran dah cukup . But then , mak pulak pesan ... "Anak mak nak kawin ni mesti la buat grand-grand . Kita sewa khemah besar-besar , jemput penyanyi ke artis ke sorang dua datang buat persembahan . Lauk pauk kita guna katering je la ya ? RM 10 je sekepala . Baju kawin kau pulak , kita sewa yg cantik-cantik dan mahal-mahal sikit . Kita jemput dalam 1000 orang . Set!"
Pengiraan pantas dijalankan :
1000 orang x RM 10 = RM10,000.
Penyanyi , khemah , kad kahwin and baju = RM 5000.
"Alamak, dah RM 15,000! Belum cincin kahwin lagi! Adoi!" hati dah memberontak dengan plan "gile" mak.
You pun 'slow talk' dengan your mom :
"Mak, nak buat apa membazir duit ni? Buat yang simple-simple dah la"
"Apa pulak membazirnya? Kau kawin sekali je seumur hidup . Biarlah buat betul-betul."
"Tapi mak ...?"
"Dahlah, kau jangan nak buat malu mak . Cik Tipah jiran kita tu buat kenduri kat hotel siap Dato', Datin, Tan Sri, Puan Sri datang . Mana la mak nak letak muka mak kalau kita buat kenduri kecik-kecik?"
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| at last . yeayy !! |
At last ...
After dah susah payah , akhirnya you ahin jugak . Fuh! Seronok dan bersyukur habis la . Lega gile rasa :DDD!
Tapi , apakan daya , kan ? Jodoh you dengan wife tak panjang . You berhutang keliling pinggang sampai tak cukup pinggang and kadar 'interest' makin tinggi . You dah tak mampu nak bayar . Wife kesayangan dah letih if you asyik nak minta duit . Siap buat package , tuduh you are irresponsible la tak bagi nafkah la dan macam-macam lagi . Padahal hantaran yang beribu-ribu siap dengan ring nak ada diamond bagai , wife kesayangan ni lah yang minta .
And Akhirnya (?) Divorce ...
Problem yang mendatangkan problem . Sometimes , kita pelik gila kenapa ikatan perkahwinan asyik sad ending je kat negara kita .
Example kat atas ni yang aku dok explain abes detail are one of the 'contoh kasar' yang aku bet la semua boleh nampak kot , kenapa orang kita kahwin lambat atau susah nak kahwin . Dah la sekarang ni nak get a job macam nak cari calon isteri/suami . haha . Dengan demand itu ini lagi . Memang makin lambat la you all nak kahwin .
My duit hantaran ... nak berapa eyh ? Uhh! Calon pun xde , mimpi lebih =.='
peaceOUT
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