Man is not prisoner of fate, but only prisoner of his own mind

-Assalamualaikum-

People tend to blame the fate if something bad or something that out of their plan happened to them. 


What is fate, actual meaning? 
Fate in bahasa is takdir. 


Takdir berlaku atas ketentuan Allah only after menilai pilihan kita sebagai manusia tertumpu ke arah yang mana. If and only if pilihan kita weight dia more to good thing so, yang will happen is something good and vice versa.


And as long as I remember, It's never a fate that will change our future yet we, ourselves are the one who have the power to change our future. 

Erm, dah takdir nak buat macam mana, terima jela. 


Sound familiar ey.


Bila dapat result yang tak seberapa
Bila gaduh besar-besaran dengan kawan
Bila involved dalam accident
Bila hati berkecai sebab kena tinggal
Bila rumah tangga bagai jatuh di timpa tangga
Dan beratus puluh bila lagi...


Seem like by putting the blame on fate would change something. Too bad. It's never will change anything.


Padahal sendiri pilih untuk utama benda lain selain dari belaja
Padahal sendiri cari pasal dengan kawan yang naive tu
Padahal sendiri drive laju tak sayang nyawa
Padahal sendiri betray orang yang di sayangi
Padahal sendiri letakkan family porak peranda
Padahal semua yang berlaku adalah atas sebab pilihan kita sendiri...

To be true, whatever had happened to us or will happen to us is happening because of our choice that make those happened. Not because of fate. And hell yeah, if it's something bad, it's because our mind setting it to be happened. 


Manusia bukan hamba takdir tapi hamba pada pemikiran mereka sendiri. 


Kita yang kawal minda kita bukan minda kita kawal kita. 

Fate only takes you to a certain point then it's up to you to make it happen

Do not blame the fate when you're the one who make the choice.